The other night on Dr. Phil, a viewer called in (or something -- I don't know how Dr. Phil works) with a concern regarding her young son. The son, she reported, had been asking "tough" questions, like "If God made everything, who made God?" and "Why did God allow the Asian tsunami to happen?" The mother was beside herself and asked Dr. Phil to give her advice on what to tell her son.
I didn't continue to watch, but I have a pretty good idea of what I would have told her. How about "Stop lying to your son." I also have a pretty good idea that Dr. Phil didn't tell her that.
The fostering of a belief in God requires so much twisting, so much side-stepping, so many logical leaps and contradictions, you'd think it would occur to more people that, huh, maybe there's something inherently flawed in this line of thinking.
I just don't get it.
UPDATE: The story I referred to is on
Dr. Phil's web site (
direct link to story). Dr. Phil's advice wasn't as bad I expected. He writes: "It's OK to say, 'Mommy doesn't always know why something happens,' ... You have to look at your belief system and decide what
it is you want to give him for comfort."
I didn't expect him to say "Maybe you shouldn't teach your child to base his concept of the world on something imaginary," but at least he didn't tell her to cop out with the "God works in mysterious ways" BS.